Coming to Terms with Your Need to Own a Cat

Caring for a cat does not begin when you already have one at home. It begins when you decide to get one for a pet.

Sure, this may be a silly thought for most of you reading this article, but as you can see, having a cat in the house is more than just fulfilling a whim. It’s more about taking responsibility. After all, cats, like humans, have lives of their own, and as a potential owner, you have to see to it that you can own one.

Of course, you wouldn’t want to commit to something you won’t be able to live up to for the long term, right?

Hence, before you wake up one morning to a furball on your tummy, you must come to terms with your need to get a cat. You may start with this guideline:

Ask yourself, how did such an idea come about?

Admit it: you came upon the idea of owning a kitty after seeing one at the pet store or after your friend shared a cute photo of her pet feline on Instagram.

You just got envious, for she’s smiling with pride with her kitty in her arms while you’re alone with no one to hold. Or you feel a bit empty inside and even emptier after seeing that the cat at the pet store doesn’t have an owner yet.

Well, these are common reasons, and they can be valid, especially when you have proven to yourself that you are a capable cat owner. So, it’s best that you jot down all the scenarios that led you to itching to get a cat so that you know where you are actually coming from.

Why do you want a cat, anyway?

Some people are natural feline lovers. Others just want someone to cuddle at home. Some people feel more comfortable with a pet rather than with a human housemate. What about you?

Maybe you crave companionship and a furry friend to come home to after a long day at work. Or perhaps you want someone who will listen to your thoughts without judgment. Cats are known for their independent yet cuddly nature, making them the perfect companion for those seeking both company and solitude.

Another possible reason could be that you want to make a positive impact on an animal’s life. Many cats end up in shelters or on the streets, and by adopting one, you are giving them a chance at a loving home.

Whatever your reason may be, it’s important to understand why you want to own a cat clearly.

You may also list down all your reasons for owning a cat, then see if these reasons come from needs or from whims. If your whims outnumber your needs, then the only recourse is to let go of the cat-owning thing. From this point forward, you already know whether you are fit to own a cat or not.

Weigh in your capability to own a cat.

Okay, let’s say your need-based reasons for owning a cat outweigh your whims. But how about your actual commitment to take care of one? You have to see if you can care for a cat, including feeding (and shopping for food), potty training, vet visits, exercise, and ensuring that your pet is always healthy.

Could you keep up with such chores? Are your family members or housemates also open to sharing the responsibility and commitment for your pet? You better have clear answers, as this will determine how prepared you are for your cat.

Owning a cat is not just about providing food and shelter. Cats require love, attention, and proper care to thrive. They also have specific needs that must be met for them to live a happy and healthy life.

Breed or no breed?

Owning a cat is one thing, but owning a cat with a breed is another. Understandably, you want a cat that you can be proud of, which means a cat that’s healthy and with a breed. And there are a lot of breeds to choose from.

Well, this isn’t much of an issue, but getting a cat with a breed entails more money to shell out of your pocket. However, if you just want a cat to keep you company or one to become a member of your family, any breed (or no breed at all) will do. Finding one would also be easier because animal shelters are waiting for aspiring cat owners with whom they can entrust their kitties. You may want to adopt instead of buying one.

Consider your living arrangements.

Before bringing a cat into your home, it’s important to consider your living arrangements. If you live in an apartment or small space, will there be enough room for a cat to roam around and play? Will there be safe places for them to hide or climb? If you have roommates or other pets, will they get along with a new feline friend?

It’s also important to consider any potential allergies or sensitivities of your household members. While cats are known for being hypoallergenic, some people may still have reactions to their dander or saliva.

If you own your home, will it be cat-friendly? Will you need to make any changes, such as installing a cat door or setting up perches and scratching posts?

Will you be able to provide a safe and secure environment for your cat? This includes keeping toxic plants and hazardous objects out of reach, as well as providing a comfortable space for them to sleep and relax.

Considering these factors can help ensure that both you and your potential new feline companion will have a happy and harmonious living arrangement.

The impact on your social life.

As a potential cat owner, it’s important also to consider the impact of owning a cat on your social life. While cats are generally low-maintenance pets, they require daily care and attention. This means that you may have to adjust your schedule or plan ahead for pet care when making plans with friends or family.

A new cat can also affect your social life at home, as you’ll need to introduce them to visitors and potentially adapt your lifestyle to accommodate your furry companion’s needs. Make sure you’re ready for how a cat can change your daily social interactions.

Additionally, if you frequently travel or have long work hours, you may need to make arrangements for your cat’s care in your absence. This could include hiring a pet sitter or finding someone to look after your furry friend while you’re away. It’s important to carefully consider these factors and plan accordingly before bringing a cat into your life.

Owning a cat can bring joy, companionship, and a sense of responsibility into your life. But it’s important to carefully evaluate your reasons, capabilities, and living arrangements before making the commitment to bring a cat into your home.

Consider the long-term commitment.

Cats can live up to 20 years, so owning one is a long-term commitment. Are you prepared to provide for your cat for that long? This includes not just their basic needs but also any unforeseen medical expenses that may arise.

It’s important to consider the future and how it may affect your ability to care for your cat. Will you still be able to provide for them if you move, have a lifestyle change, or have children? What if you have to move to a place that doesn’t allow pets, or your living situation changes unexpectedly?

Contemplate if you’re ready for years of responsibilities, including potential changes in your life such as moving, changes in work schedule, or new family members. It’s essential to plan ahead and make sure that your cat will always be taken care of no matter what.

Prepare your home environment.

Before bringing a cat into your life, assess your living environment. Is it safe and conducive to a cat’s well-being?  Are there any hidden hazards, such as toxic plants, exposed wires, or tight spaces where a cat can get trapped?

Cats are curious creatures and will explore every nook and cranny of your home. Secure loose wires, ensure windows have screens, and remove toxic plants or dangerous items that could potentially harm your new pet. 

Also, consider investing in a scratching post, good-quality toys, and a comfortable bed to give your cat its own space.  Providing a stimulating and safe environment is crucial for keeping your cat happy and healthy.

Adjusting to a cat’s personality.

Every cat is unique, just like humans. They have their own quirks and personalities that make them special. As a cat owner, it’s important to understand and respect your cat’s personality and needs.

Some cats may be more independent, while others may always crave attention and cuddle. Some may be vocal, while others are quieter. It’s important to get to know your cat and their likes and dislikes. This will help you provide the best care for them and form a strong bond.

Being patient during this period can help establish a positive relationship with your cat. Allow them to explore and adjust to their new home at their own pace. With time, you will learn more about your cat’s personality, and it will be a rewarding experience for both of you.

Budget for your cat’s needs.

The financial commitment of owning a cat extends beyond the initial adoption fee. There are ongoing costs like high-quality cat food, litter, routine veterinary care, vaccinations, and, potentially, emergency medical expenses.  You should also consider pet insurance, which can help cover unexpected costs.

Additionally, cats require proper nutrition, which can vary depending on their age, breed, and overall health.  Other expenses that should be considered include grooming, litter, and toys. It’s crucial to factor these costs into your budget before committing to owning a cat.

Start budgeting early and consider setting aside a kitty emergency fund to avoid any financial stress down the road. Remember, your cat’s health and well-being are in your hands.

Get ready for some fun.

Cats are known for their playful antics, affectionate behaviour, and ability to bring laughter and joy to a household. They thrive on mental and physical stimulation, so be prepared to provide plenty of toys and activities to keep them entertained.

Make time to play and interact with your cat daily, as this provides them with needed exercise and strengthens your bond. This could include interactive games, puzzles, or even just a laser pointer for them to chase around.

You may also consider setting up a safe outdoor space for your cat to explore if you have a backyard or balcony. However, be sure to provide proper supervision and ensure your cat is microchipped and has identification in case it wanders off.

Embrace the joys of cat companionship.

As you get to know your cat, you’ll discover the unique joys of cat companionship. Whether it’s their serene presence as they curl up next to you or their entertaining high-speed zoomies, every moment with a cat is a chance to experience the lighter side of life.

Cats also make great emotional support animals, as they can provide comfort and help reduce stress and anxiety. Their calming presence can be especially beneficial for those who live alone or struggle with mental health issues. 

Watch as your cat finds its favourite sunny spot for a nap or cleverly navigates the house — their curiosity and playfulness can turn even the most mundane day into an adventure. Remember to cherish these simple joys, as they are the heartwarming rewards of cat ownership.

With these things in mind, you are now ready to welcome a new furry friend into your home and heart. Whether it’s your first cat or an addition to your existing furry family, owning a cat can bring endless love, companionship, and happiness into your life. Enjoy the journey of being a responsible and loving cat owner!